Intro
In this blog post, I want to argue a point of view that I have been hearing a lot for a long time.
Which is: Women need to lower their standards, especially when it comes to relationships!
But I want to suggest something to all the guys who say this and relationship coaches — especially: why don’t you say this instead? “Read Below.”
Main Points
Why don’t you say to the guys who cannot find an understandable woman:
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Be polite. No need for money or status — representing yourself with politeness is one way to get through.
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Humor is an amazing personality trait to have! But know how to use it properly.
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Education degree is good, but if you have good understanding of your surroundings and how to utilize problem solving with critical thinking in a calm way, then I am sorry not sorry — put your degree in a cup of water and drink it. Maybe it will be useful. Hypothetically, a way to at least drink the knowledge since your brilliant mind could not have the benefits.
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Do work on upgrading your knowledge, and these days you have plenty of ways to do it. Read a book, watch documentaries, involve yourself in workshops, or learn a craft. Make yourself useful to her. I know people who have nothing to brag about except their good behavior and usefulness, and women agree on what they have. And I can see that she is way smarter than him, and I believe he knows it — yet he is not downsizing her. Instead, he is also using her knowledge for his life tasks.
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Lastly, guys, as you are asking for things, make sure you meet what she asks for! Because this is what made the standard higher.
Girls, have your standard met. If he agrees and asks for time to meet your standard, understand him — give him time.
What I mean here by standards is not money, status, or fame. No, I mean behavior-wise, maturity, emotional intelligence.
Conclusion
1- Tip: Ask her, who is your favorite actor? If she says anything about the character he played, listen to her — she is telling you about the way of treating her, okay!
If she said otherwise, then it is up to you if you want to stay or leave. She is materialistic if you are thinking to have an understanding one.
2- Tip: Watch this movie and series. Look please at what the male character did to show his usefulness and understanding.