Intro
Okay… I think when I started blogging, I’ve started noticing the things I go through each week.
Because before blogging, no matter what I had gone through — I really could not recall it. 0_0 hehehe
So, it is one of the advantages of blogging, I guess. (Cause no matter whoever said it — I wouldn’t believe it. But when doing it — it makes sense).
Let me dive in — into this blog post’s topic! Which is something that happened in my life in the last two weeks. That’s why I mentioned blogging helps me remember when things happen.
Thus, the topic is:
Do not interfere or take sides when two individuals you love have a fight or misunderstanding.
Main Points
I won’t spill all the details, since it’s not my matter — and I didn’t ask their permission to talk about it. But it was something between a loving father and a loving daughter. Both of them are amazing.
But one of them wanted a certain life decision, and the other couldn’t bear it — since it wasn’t something they were satisfied with.
And I took the side of one of them — maybe because I wanted to fix something that happened in the past. Yet… it was the present moment!
Also, I took the side immediately, without really listening to the other side.
Plus — things really escalated, my fears and anger got me blind.
- I stopped sleeping, eating well, and thinking while sleeping! I say this because I remember sleeping on the same thought and waking up on it.
- Even worse — I couldn’t do my daily tasks or at least live the way I want to.
Conclusion
I’ve learned a lot from this life lesson. Not because I was a brilliant, wise thinker. No!
Yeah, I felt that something wasn’t working — and I had a person who really was there and gave me the real talk that even shut me up.
So, having a person in your life — family member or friend — who can bring you back to your senses and logical mind? It’s a blessing.
To end this blog here, I’ll just say: I’ve learned the lesson and dis-attached myself from other people’s life experiences.
Just take it easy.